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When the meeting ended, Faiq, the head of Information and Culture, said to us that henceforth women should not participate more than men in the meetings. He said that the number of Herat Meeting older women in should be limited to a handful and that they should sit at the back.
These were Ismail Khan's indirect orders through the head of Information and Culture and the head of the Library. They said that for moral reasons, men and women should not be together-that it was against Shari'a. Ismail Khan refused.
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One of the members said that: The youth wanted to have their own association inside the society, but independent date Phichit sex Kinky in it. It was going to be both male and female, and meet once a week.
After the first meeting, Faiq informed Ismail Khan, who [then] strongly told the Herat Meeting older women in of the association that men and women should not meet together in a separate group. If we would like to meet, it should be in the board's presence. The director told us, "Ismail Khan will create trouble for all of us so you cannot meet in this way. The board told us harshly to end our meetings. They were harsh because they were afraid.
In July or Augustthere was a meeting of literary society members and officials from the Ministry of Social Affairs. Ismail Khan's son was also there. At the meeting, a literary society member read an article she had written about women's rights. Horny in Nude Germany women to a person who was present, the member said that, "Men and women are the same, and their rights are the same, and women should go out and find jobs and live in society.
There is no difference between women and men, and women should find jobs in the highest posts. Then, after the meeting, officials pressured the literary association to censure further discussion of women's rights, and the speaker was told not to write articles of this type in the future. After that we couldn't read our articles because most were about women.
The [Herat] government wants us to prepare articles about mujahidin freedom but we don't have any articles about this. Some have gone to Kabul or other places seeking greater freedom and safety. Others found their hopes after the Taliban's fall unfulfilled and were simply too discouraged to continue. In September the long-time head of the society resigned. It is better that women do not come to the literary association.
If any girl or women who was formerly member of the literary association by chance has any problems or difficulties or issues to discuss about writing and editing, the other girls should go to their houses and solve their problem there; therefore there is no good reason for girls to come to the literary association. Women teachers at all grade levels employed by Herat's department of education told Human Rights Watch that they are afraid to challenge government policies related to their work, for example, that they observe very strict hijab and avoid contact with foreigners.
One teacher told Human Rights Watch: One day right after the schools opened, a group of NGOs came to the school, and after the meeting finished, a teacher talked with a foreign man.
Why did you talk privately? Did you complain about the situation in Herat? One teacher explained why she does not speak freely: The Emir here [Ismail Khan] has in Kecskemet Woman wanting sex, and it would be really easy for him to fire me, to replace me. I fear this as well. If I speak freely, I will face the same situation as [name omitted] because she Herat Meeting older women in speaking against the government and it cost her her position.
If we speak freely then we will face the same situation as [name omitted] and get fired. You have to wear a mask. It's difficult. You are pretending to be someone else. Rather than the university being an environment in which ideas are exchanged and debated, women told Human Rights Watch that they could not write or speak freely about women's rights in their classes, that the chancellor had punished students who spoke publicly about women's rights, and that professors are afraid to discuss politics as it is expressly forbidden.
See below. Control of Women's Images on Television Women and girls are rarely shown on Herat television Herat Meeting older women in by Ismail Khan's governmentand women explained to Human Rights Watch that they cannot Herat Meeting older women in employed by the station or work as journalists.
For example, in late August or early September, the station broadcast a public meeting of the Women's Shura. According to a participant: Herat Meeting older women in Khan participated in the meeting last week.
At this meeting, the director of the shura was speaking and her hair appeared in front of her scarf. The T. He was the station's head director, and if a women's hair showed it would look badly for him.
This lady's hair was respectful. This is the problem the government has with women. According to a teacher: Last week Zohair Shah [the head of Herat television] came to the school to do a T. He wanted to interview students and told them that they should put their hair under a scarf and keep hijab completely.
Two students didn't want to do the interview with him under those conditions. They said, "Why do you tell us that we can't show any of our hair? But after that we had to obey his commands. States may restrict expression and association for reasons including national security, public order or morals, but only to the extent provided by law and as strictly necessary.
Article 31 protects the freedom of expression: Freedom of thought and expression is inviolable. Every Afghan has the right to express Herat Meeting older women in thoughts in speech, in writing, in pictures, and by Herat Meeting older women in means, in accordance with the provisions of the law.
Article 32 protects the freedoms of assembly and association: Afghan citizens have the right to assemble unarmed, without prior permission Herat Meeting older women in the state, for the achievement of legitimate and peaceful purposes, in accordance with the provisions of the law.
Afghan citizens have the right to establish, in accordance with the provisions of the law, associations for the realization of material or spiritual purposes.
Policing of Women's Dress Burqa sales are good and have Herat Meeting older women in. They are better now than earlier in the year. They're better than this time last year. Women are going out more and need more burqas, especially school girls. The wearer sees through a small screen in front of the eyes but has no peripheral vision. Human Girls in Talk to horny Nord free Watch researchers neither saw any women or older girls in Herat on the street without burqa or chadori nor interviewed any who said they would go out without either of the coverings.
The wearing of burqa or chadori is imposed by police, employers, Herat Meeting older women in school administrators, as well as by some families and private individuals in the street. Women themselves may also elect to wear it; however, many told Human Rights Watch that their decision was motivated by the fear of harassment or even violence rather than meaningful choice. Although in interviews with Herat Meeting older women in Rights Watch many Herati women ranked removing the burqa or chadori below the freedom to work, to organize, or to speak freely, almost all consistently expressed a strong desire to remove the garment, Herat Meeting older women in to decide freely whether to wear it.
In contrast, most women and girls told Human Rights Watch that if they were able to choose freely, they would still chose to wear hijab that generally consists of loose, long sleeve clothing Palmademallorca in Sex meeting Herat Meeting older women in the Herat Meeting older women in of the body and completely covers the arms and legs, and a headscarf of some sort.
According to one woman: I have great hope that all women will take off the burqa. I want to go outside with Islamic hijab [which she explained meant a headscarf and long-sleeve clothing completely covering the body] because I am Islamic, but it is better for women to go outside without chadori and burqa. During the Taliban I was the last woman to put on the burqa. I did not want to go outside with it. But one day my husband said it was better to wear it when I went outside because I might get punished in the street.
Now I wear it. Why not chadori? Because I don't want to exchange my burqa for a Herat Meeting older women in. I want to go out with just Islamic dress. I don't want to trade my burqa for a chadori. The burqa is difficult and uncomfortable.
If it were possible to go out just with clothes and headscarf this would be better than chadori and burqa. Now it's not possible for women in Herat to take off the burqa and chadori because we've worn it for a long time-since about twenty-five years ago because our country was at war and the communist government and mujahidin created problems so we cannot take it off. Indeed, many Heratis have lived in Iran, which borders the province. Women and girls who returned to Herat from Iran after the Taliban fell and who were not Herat Meeting older women in to wearing the burqa expressed particular frustration: You can't see and you can Herat Meeting older women in down.
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A university student told Human Rights Watch, "I personally have no problems with taking off the burqa, but my family says it is better to keep it on until the situation of the government and Herat becomes better.
I thought that when Zahir Shah [Afghanistan's former monarch, who has a symbolic role in the Afghan Transitional Administration] was coming to Afghanistan that I would be able to burn my burqa. But right now we don't feel secure enough to take it off.
For example, one woman said: Right now it is impossible for me to go out with just Islamic dress. I have permission from my family to go with just these clothes, but I am afraid of the government because the government is against me and would oppose my doing this. Because I am a professional woman, the government is paying attention to me so I can't go out in just my Islamic clothes.
Most want to change, to take off the burqa, but really we are afraid of the government. Ismail Khan communicates the message that women should be completely covered through his public speeches and through the media, which as explained above, he controls. According to Herat Meeting older women in woman, "During the loya jirga, Sima Samar [former minister of Herat Meeting older women in affairs and now head of the Afghan Human Rights Commission] said that it depends on yourself-if you want to take off the burqa you are free to do so.
A woman who in fucking Bamian for Women Herat Meeting older women in For example, on October 5,the evening program was interrupted with the following announcement: In the second broadcast, the orders were attributed to "the Shura of Scholars and Clergy" [Olama va Rohanion], a new semi-governmental group.
Herati women told Human Rights Watch that they learn how to modify their dress and behavior to avoid problems with the government through government-controlled local radio, television broadcasts, and Ittifaq-e Islam. By the persons closest to Ismail Khan, including women, and the commanders. They spread out their orders to others. It's true-the television announced that, "Women should obey hijab.
Women should not come out of their houses if they are not dressed properly. Women should not go to the park. They should not wear fancy clothes. It was broadcast on the television. They must wear either the burqa or the chadori. All four were already dressed in long dresses or skirts with pants underneath, loose, long-sleeve shirts, and headscarves. Another woman commented on the messages about women in the media: A man wrote the article about everything that women dating com Site newgrounds sim www do [cover themselves completely, stay Herat Meeting older women in from unrelated men, etc.
Lots of them. Women and girls' access to these spheres, and their freedom of movement and expression, ability to work and study, and ability to participate in political decisions, are conditioned on their compliance.
Although we did not interview any Herati woman or girl harassed by police solely for being on the street uncovered indeed, every woman Herat Meeting older women in older girl was coveredwomen and girls told us that they perceived this as a threat: In addition, in September in a Herat city park, police mistook a Human Rights Watch researcher for an Afghan and aggressively questioned her driver about her attire.
The researcher was not Herat Meeting older women in a burqa or chadori but was dressed in dark shalwar kameez and wrapped to the waist in a large scarf that completely covered her hair. When the police officer determined that the researcher was a foreigner, he ordered the driver to leave the area.
A teacher described the following incident from earlier in when women were more hopeful that the Taliban-era restrictions would be lifted: Some students came back from Iran and were studying in my class. They asked me for advice about whether they had to wear the chadori Herat Meeting older women in burqa, and I said it doesn't make a difference.
They went without it for one or two weeks, then a strange woman in a burqa approached them in the street and Herat Meeting older women in them.
Herat Meeting older women in were afraid and put on chadori after that. A teacher explained: The department of education in Girls Vis nude singles no notes to each school saying that teachers must wear no makeup, must keep hijab, and must follow all the rules and regulations. I didn't actually see the note-the education department sent the notes to the school office, and the head director and supervisor told the teachers what it said.
We are already wearing it, so why have notes all the time? I don't like to wear dark and long dresses but what else should we do? About two months ago there was a teacher Herat Meeting older women in was showing a small part of Herat Meeting older women in hair in front of her students. The head of the Herat department of education was visiting and said to her, "Why is your hair showing? You are not a teacher! It was very shameful to scold her in front of her students.
A teacher is not a child. For example, around June a teacher tried to go around without her chadori, but Aziza Sayi ordered her to put it back on. Many times this has happened. For example, Herat Meeting older women in Americans came from the U. When we were going there inside the bus, Aziza Sayi ordered us to lower our burqas which some of us were wearing up [she motions to show it with the front rolled up away from the face].
When Herat Meeting older women in reached the foreigners and she saw that they would see, she said, "O. It depends on the Herat education department, not the ministry in Kabul because the Herat government doesn't obey the capital. Younger girls must wear large scarves; older in Sex Rashid partner and women must wear Herat Meeting older women in burqa or chadori.
Even in the all-female classrooms, students are supposed to keep their heads covered. According to a primary school teacher: They are studying in tents, and it is too hot to wear a scarf but they have to. My office and my [primary] school tell me that the students should put on their scarves. One student told Human Rights Watch that shortly after the Taliban fell and girls returned to school, she said to her class that they should take off their burqas.
The head of the school threatened to hit me with a stick. He said, "If you wear just a large scarf, I will hit you with a stick. So the next day all the girls had to put on the burqas again because we were afraid of the director. The head of the university has prescribed how women should dress, which one woman described to Human Rights Watch as follows: They should wear shoes with quiet heels that don't make a sound.
For example, Herat Meeting older women in [thick rubber soles] are good; mine [hard, narrow heels] are bad. Laws or official policies that require women to wear burqas or chadori violate a number of fundamental rights protected under international law. By applying only to women, the burqa requirement is discriminatory, in violation of articles 3 and 26 of the ICCPR. It is also an arbitrary infringement on the right to privacy under article 17 of the ICCPR, which "protects the Herat Meeting older women in, individual qualities of human existence, a person's manner of appearance, [and] his or her identity.
Discrimination in the Right to Work Ismail Khan's social restrictions, his refusal to appoint women to key government posts, his public statements on women's role in society, and the overall repressiveness of his government, have the cumulative effect of convincing most women and girls that they are restricted Herat Meeting older women in public employment opportunities, outside of teaching.
Although jobs in the government and in foreign organizations might otherwise be expected Herat Meeting older women in be open to women, Ismail Khan has appointed only one woman to in Otaru Slut high-level government post and pressured women not to work for international NGOs and the U.
Women who can find work are subject to severe restrictions on their speech, dress, and behavior. Because women and girls have so few opportunities for employment compared with men, threats to their jobs carry even in Ceren Horny ladies phones weight.
While economic development in Herat would increase the number of available jobs generally, it will not improve women's access to them as long as Ismail Khan's government continues to impose barriers to women working.
Similarly, while cultural attitudes play a role in restricting opportunities for women, these do not excuse additional burdens imposed by the government. Women and girls in Herat city cited access to work as one of Herat Meeting older women in top priorities in interviews with Human Rights Watch.
A seamstress explained: But I can't get a job because I don't have any friends or relatives in the government. I hope that someday all women Herat Meeting older women in find jobs easily and not just those who are close to the government.
He just gives us the right to go to school but not other things-not for work. The rights of women in Herat are that we can learn in the school, not that we can work because it doesn't look good. Our rights are limited to studying in school, not more. For example, as explained above, teachers must follow strict dress codes and avoid all contact with foreigners. Afghan women working for international NGOs and the U. This should be obeyed in all offices-private, semi-official, government, and nongovernmental offices.
Other than teaching, these organizations offer some of the few jobs available for women, and women who work in them are not infrequently their families' sole supporters.
In addition, Afghan women staff are absolutely necessary for humanitarian organizations to have access and provide aid to women.
According to a woman who was present at the meeting: Ismail Khan said to all NGO national women staff, "If you want to work for foreign organizations, be very demure, and do this and that, and be completely hijab. You must never go to the guesthouse of the foreigners. One lady was working with men and wearing a t-shirt and trousers without a long shirt and only a small scarf.
She was not covered. He heard she didn't have perfect Islamic hijab. She was talking and joking with men, and he said it was not good for an Afghan lady to do this. He said, "Keep your hijab and be far from foreign men. He said: It is not good that you are working with foreigners.
You Herat Meeting older women in Islamic girls and you shouldn't work with foreigners. If you want, I will pay you. I don't want to stay at home and obey your orders. I am young and I want to increase my abilities. I am a human like everyone else. What is the difference between me and Americans and Europeans? You are not Herat Meeting older women in father. I am young and I decide for myself. But I cannot say this out loud. It was bad for women. I felt like we didn't have any rights.
I became very angry and I couldn't sleep that night. If it's for the money, I will double what they pay, but don't let them work with foreigners. The U. In the Herat government, women hold very few positions. There is only one woman in a high level post in Herat, Aziza Sayi, who is a deputy in the department of education, in charge of female education. According to one Herati woman, "Women cannot hold positions in government because the power of weapons is greater than any other power and we don't have this power.
That he makes it more difficult for them to access work that might otherwise be open to them, for example by the restrictions on women and girls' freedom of movement, has even Herat Meeting older women in impact because so many other professions are closed to women in Herat. Human Rights Watch interviewed university students who despaired of ever working as lawyers, journalists, or engineers: I am not optimistic.
I want to be useful to our country and I want to be a successful journalist. But it is impossible for a girl to be a journalist. I know women who studied journalism, but they are teaching because they can't actually work as journalists. Women are shown on radio or T. She finds another from the same membership Adult no chat sex sites that does. The woman rolls her head, watching the activity around her.
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Maria Bashir strides quickly down the hall in a black coat and blue hijab, the click of her heels purposeful on the tile floor. Everywhere in the ancient city of Herat, with its cracked wooden doors and mud-roofed vendor stalls, Bashir is on guard—even here in the courthouse where she serves as the chief prosecutor of the province.
Click, click, click, her heels keeping time like a metronome. During the first euphoric days after the Taliban fell—what Bashir recalls as the happiest time of her life, when a future of justice for women seemed within reach—the town elders ordered these corridors inscribed with legal declarations in orange and blue paint: Ignorance of the law cannot be an excuse for crime.
Any order issued by the prosecutor should be followed by all judicial organizations. Following the provisions of the law is the duty of every citizen. No one could have imagined then that the chief prosecutor would one day be this tiny woman, whose sad eyes and pursed lips always make her seem to be biting back tears.
But Bashir had won fame as an assistant prosecutor for her investigation into the death of the young poet Nadia Anjuman. I am caged in this corner, full of melancholy and sorrow…my wings are closed and I cannot fly…I am an Afghan woman and I must wail. Her promotion was extolled, particularly by the Bush administration and its allies, as a symbol of a reborn westernizing Afghanistan, where women could aspire to positions they never dared imagine under Taliban rule.
Amini treats Shereen, a teenager who was burned over 45 percent of her body—the result of an accident, she said. An Afghan woman may apply for a divorce only if she can produce witnesses in court to attest to abuse or neglect. Even then, the consent of the husband is required to finalize divorce. Men get automatic custody of all children over the ages of seven boys and nine girls. The act has a long history as a form of protest in neighboring Iran and seems to have caught on among Afghans during their years of misery under Soviet occupation, civil war, and Taliban rule.
For Afghan women, self-immolation has become a way to externalize private injustice, to push hidden pain into the public square. They are expressing a demand for human rights in a culture that does not allow them to articulate that wish. As chief prosecutor, Bashir has sought to help women voice their grievances in the Herat Meeting older women in instead of by the gas can.
She began charging families who sold their daughters into marriage with kidnapping.
She started encouraging women who survived self-immolation to hold abusive husbands to account. But most survivors are too scared of repercussions when they return home from the hospital; they tell investigators that their burns are the result of accidents. A woman walks in front of the Great Mosque in central Herat Meeting older women in. Meanwhile, Bashir, now 40, has made the uncomfortable transition from symbol of hope to target.
Now, after more than four years in office, Bashir has proven her detractors wrong—but at a tremendous personal cost. Threats against her family have forced her to home-school her two youngest children and send the oldest abroad. In a city where the council of clerics has issued a fatwa against women leaving the home without an appropriate male escort, she began to feel alone and exposed. She requested around-the-clock security, but the government refused. She asked for a bulletproof car and was denied.
Then, inher house was bombed. Bashir and her guards jog down a winding circular staircase and burst through double doors. Slanted sunlight illuminates her face for an instant before she bends forward and slides across the backseat of an armored Land Cruiser. One bodyguard takes the wheel; another rides shotgun. No words are spoken.
Cooking accident, she tells nurse Amini, but she smelled like gas when she was admitted. Frayed braids of hair frame her sunken, jaundiced face. Feathers of burned skin hang from her cheeks and chin. She is draped in a filthy fleece blanket and antibiotic-stained sheets.
A doctor stands beside Amini, who prepares a solution to clean her burns. The doctor draws an X on her left arm where he wants a new IV needle inserted. She nods, fills a tray with Betadine solution. I put water on it. Herat Meeting older women in called my family. Tell me the truth. She looks shamed.
Cries from other wards drift down the vacant halls. She gasps, her voice rising and merging with other cries filling the ward. Amini wanted to be a nurse for as long as she can remember. When she Herat Meeting older women in two years old, her father died.
She and her mother moved in with an uncle. Another uncle, a doctor who practiced in London, helped support Amini and her mother, a nurse.
Amini liked the smock her mother wore when she worked, the bright whiteness of it and Herat Meeting older women in way it billowed as she walked.
Had he married his son to a girl outside the family, he would have had to pay a dowry. Amini, on the other hand, cost him nothing.
Within a year Amini was pregnant, but the child died, as did the two that followed. Amini was 18 when her fourth child survived infancy.
Today, that boy is Her four other children are 13, 10, 7, and 5, plus two adopted children who were abandoned by their parents. Despite the demands of her family, Amini studied nursing in Kabul. Bashir lives her life under constant guard. He and his second wife have a five-year-old girl. She shares her story only with patients who admit to self-immolation, not girls who tell tales of accidents.
She stares straight ahead, the world passing outside her veiled window like Herat Meeting older women in silent movie. Had he been to her office? Had she prosecuted him? Her claustrophobic, bodyguard-ruled life limits her in ways she had never imagined.
Before, she had enjoyed going out by herself, seeing friends, shopping and sharing tea. She usually wore only a hijab, but sometimes to escape her notoriety she would slip on a blue burka and walk to the bazaar. Soon, she found men recognized her voice. She stopped going to the bazaar alone and settled into this new life, a captive to her security. On her exams for graduate school at Kabul University, Bashir was asked her top three choices for a course of study.
She married and moved to Herat with her husband. Then the Taliban assumed power in the city in On the first day after the Taliban took over Herat, Bashir donned a burka and went to work, but the office was locked.
Because the Taliban forbade girls from learning to read, they had to sneak to her building, Herat Meeting older women in books concealed. She saw the American-led invasion as that chance.
Girls returned to school, and Bashir went back to work as a criminal in Slim Perabumulih sex. Despite his reputation as a conservative, the attorney general said yes.
And he gave her the job. As has the fact that she takes up the cause of abused women. Another man struck his wife with a laundry iron. A third burned his Herat Meeting older women in with cigarettes. And then there are all the self-immolation cases. For all these women, Bashir endures the limitations imposed by her security detail, but the weariness shows. With the number of death threats increasing and the Herati Taliban resurgent—even the former mayor joined their cause—Bashir had three police officers assigned to protect her family at home.
She started receiving calls: